Frequently asked questions

Koterie is an intimate social club for open-minded, ambitious women. We design beautiful, thoughtful gatherings that spark meaningful conversation and build real community, online and in person.

Koterie is for women who crave depth over small talk. Builders, creatives, founders, and professionals who lead with heart and strategy.

Ambition isn’t just titles or hustle. It’s the desire to build a life, career, or creative practice with care, intention, and momentum.

We’re currently active in Paris, with select pop-ups in London. We’ll announce new cities as we grow.

Submit an application to join at www.koterie.club/signup. Once accepted, you’ll get instant access to the platform to browse the community and book gatherings. You can upgrade to Insider for priority booking, event discounts, full community member profiles, in-platform messaging, and the ability to host Petit Tablées. If you’re not accepted right now, you’re welcome to reapply later.

Koterie gatherings are for members only, and membership is by application, which is how we keep the community aligned. Applying only takes a few minutes and once approved you can book into events and connect with the community.

We review applications to keep the space aligned and kind. Once your application is received, we aim to provide a response within 24 hours.

Koterie is free to join. Our calendar includes both free and paid gatherings. You don’t need to be an Insider to attend open events.

Insider is our optional membership for deeper access and perks: priority booking access, a fixed discount on event bookings, the ability to host your own Petit Tablées, full member profiles, and in-platform messaging.

Koterie Insider is currently €9/month or €90/year — a limited-time Founding Insider price.

Not at this time. To protect the experience, only accepted members who have registered for the specific gathering may attend.

Petit Tablées are member-hosted, small dinners at local restaurants. Guests pay for their own meal, and a small participation fee on the platform secures each spot and helps reduce no-shows. These are connection-first spaces (no pitching or selling).

Become an Insider. Choose a restaurant/date and make the booking (you’ll cover any required deposit or card-on-file). Submit your table for listing with proof of reservation (screenshot or confirmation email). Once approved, we’ll publish it so members can claim seats. Note: repeated no-shows or misuse may remove hosting access.

Please see koterie.club/cancellations for full details.

If you have accessibility needs, email contact@koterie.club before booking so we can advise on venue suitability. For dietary needs, please contact the venue directly. We’ll always do our best to help, but Koterie is not responsible for dietary accommodations.

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We collaborate with aligned brands through sponsorships, sampling, and content. Email contact@koterie.club to explore opportunities.

We’d love to hear it. Email contact@koterie.club with suggestions or ideas for future gatherings and features.